Actress Toyin Aimakhu and Her Love for 'Toy' Men

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Popular Yoruba actress, Toyin Aimakhu was recently dragged on social media  by her ex boyfriend, Seun Egbegbe. This wasn't unexpected as the actress have practically been living her life on social media especially with regards to her relationship and love life.

Personally, I wouldn't  expose my love life to the scrutiny of social media critics who dwells so much on negativity but then again, Ms Toyin is an adult with fundamental rights and free to do whatever pleases her.

However what I don't understand is why a beautiful woman by all standards, always end up with 'toy' men or what I termed  'Big babies'? Just when we thought her ex husband, Mr Johnson showed her the height of disrespect by sleeping with her staff, Mr Seun came from nowhere and swept off the remaining reputation left of Toyin.

Any man that can slander a woman he claims to love and openly calls her a whore and love peddler was never in love with the said woman and He's simply a 'toy' man. Real men move on when relationship doesn't work. My Seun Egbegbe rants did portray him as he is; a'Big baby'.

Thankfully, Ms Toyin was wise enough to report Seun's threat to appropriate authorities but after Seun display of madness, the arrest, him signing an undertaking and all well and good; what next for Toyin? Would she continue to flaunt the next available man that melts her fragile heart on social media.

Some may call her a strong woman for surviving two terrible relationship but all I see is a confused woman who needs a re-evaluation of herself. Toyin needs to build her self esteem. She needs to get lots of wisdom as wisdom is profitable to guide because she has succeeded in making herself a cheap bowl for market spit.

I just hope and pray, she gets the desired wisdom to enable her make better relationship decisions.